I'm Susan Clark with the Special English programWords and Their Stories.
Tom Smith is the best hitter on his company'sbaseball team. For weeks during the playing season,Tom hit a home run in every game the team played. But then suddenly he stopped hitting home runs. Hecould not hit the baseball at all.
One day he struck out three times in one game. Hesaid, "I am afraid I am losing it."
Mary Jones bought a dress in a woman's clothingstore. She felt very happy about buying the dress until she got home. Thenshe remembered she had left her credit card at the store when she used it to pay for the dress. It was the third time that month that Mary had forgottensomething important.
Mary was angry with herself. She said, "Am I losing it?"
Emma Cleveland was teaching a class in mathematics at a college. Shebegan to explain to the students how to solve a very difficult problem. Sheundersood it very well. But somehow, at that moment, she could not explainit. Emma said, "I must be losing it."
Americans seem to have a lot of concern about losing it. At least that iswhat you would think from hearing them talk. They use the expression whenthey feel they are losing control. It can mean losing emotional control. Orlosing the ability to do something. Or losing mental powers.
Word experts differ about how the expression started. Some believe it camefrom television programs popular in the 1980s. Others believe it began withpsychologists and psychiatrists who deal with how people think, feel andact.
One psychologist said, "We Americans have many concerns aboutcontrolling our lives. Perhaps we worry too much."
She continued, "In many situations, to say you are 'losing it' eases thetension. It is healthy. And most people who say they are having a problemare not 'losing it.'" People may feel more like they are losing it when theyare "down in the dumps."
People who are "down in the dumps" are sad. They are depressed.
Word expert Charles Funk says people have been feeling "down in thedumps" for more than 400 years. Sir Thomas More used the expression in 1534. He wrote: "Our poor family...has fallen in such dumps."
Word experts do not agree what the word "dumps" means. One expert,John Ayto, says the word "dumps" probably comes from the Scandanaviancountries. The languages of Denmark and Norway both have similar words. The words mean "to fall suddenly."
Americans borrowed this saying. And, over the years, it has become apopular way of expressing sadness.